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Nature's Preaching!!

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Hello Everyone, Happy Sunday. Well friends...each day is a new day with its new opportunities, challenges, and possibilities...so accept it with open arms and live it  to its full. Kindly read the following poem and leave your valuable comments.

See this world, crammed with pleasure everywhere, Colours of Nature are scattered all over. Happy are the stars in darkness and glitter, Preach us to overcome the ignorance and jitters See the sky high, though far Full of mystic fantasy and bizarre; And teaches us to touch the crest, Preaching by trees is unique and the best Since we’re told to be humble and generous, Uncanny is the glee showered by the rippling rivers Makes us heading on and on but be courteous. Beams of the sun are so bright, Illuminate the entire world equally with their light. Standstills are the hills and the mountains, Show us the way to be courageous in the problem’s curtains. It’s so easy to lead this life, if we work assiduously,
Leave everything onto Him, if we want to live cheerful…

Yardstick for Success!!!

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Hello Everyone,
Well...sometimes it is fantastic to learn something new without any intention of learning as it compels us to introspect about certain issues. Today the similar instance happened with me when I came across a statement, made by my colleague while having a discourse, regarding how we change drastically in the course of time. He is a young man who has an excellent expertise in fine arts and who progressed incredibly during his studies. He was always curious to learn and wanted to conduct his research in photography…since there is a lot of scope in this field and a very few people have explored different aspects in this regard. But he couldn’t understand what happened afterwards…as he lost his vigor and vitality of learning new things. He had to chew over the ways which could help him to adjust in his new working environment such as coping up with his new boss, manipulating with the workplace politics, manoeuvring the different work culture. He got engrossed with these una…

Early Bird Catches the Worm!!

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Hello Everyone,
How are you doing? How's life going? Today I woke up a little late...generally I am very energetic on week-ends but today I was feeling lethargic...though I woke up late by half an hour only but it seemed too late. It is my habit to pay my reverence to the rising sun just after waking up as it fills me with lots of positive energy but today I found the sun shining brightly and I was unable to concentrate on my prayers. The worst thing which happened was that I forgot to carry my mobile phone which is an inseparable part of my life. Well...Friends, today I wish to talk to you regarding waking up early and its advantages. Basically I come across three kinds of categories of people who have diverse perception in terms of early rising.. The first category includes the people who despise early rising as they feel life is the other name of chilling out and relaxing...and morning is the best time to give rest to the body. The second category consists of people who want to…

No one is Alien Here!!!!

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Hello Everyone, In the present scenario...we are living in dark...as no one trusts anyone...people all over the world are battling with various theories, such as all the strangers are arsonists, enemies, and will maltreat us etc. There is fear, chaos, uncertainty, and dilemma among all of us. So what is to be done?? Should we let such negative thoughts come across our minds to snatch the heavenly qualities like love, trust, care, peace, belief, humanity etc? God made this wonderful universe for us, His children, so that we can live a carefree life...we can propagate the divinity in the form of love and beauty...but look at our helplessness...since we ourselves have created problems and mess everywhere...Elaborating on the same points...I composed the poem No one is Alien Here! 

No one is alien here, We all are akin to each other; Scarlet blood flows in all of us, But the colour of skin may differ, Voice, a wonderful gift by Him, But the language may differ, Brain, a brilliant gift by Him, But …

Moments Of Solitude!

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Hello Everyone,How are you all? Well...Friends sometimes we feel like spending our time with ourselves...far from maddening hullabaloo of this world...we want no one around us....it shows that you want to have introspection about something that has a profound impact on your life...so if you are going through this yearning for solitude...don't worry...as it is a good sign...but come up with some positive perception after this brooding...No matter how terrible the situation is...tell yourself that you are going to prove youself to the rest of the world...as all the god made things around us convey the message of being confident, carefree and optimist...So read this poem of mine and don't forget to leave your comments..I feel the moments of solitudeSad and dejected;Left alone and rejectedWhom to take solace and Change the attitude;Who am I?Several questions ariseHeart, full of morose, repents and criesThe splendid world seems go up side downI feel the moments of solitudeHere come…

Nervousness: Part and Parcel of Life

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Hello Everyone, Let me share my poem Nervousness: Part and Parcel of Life with you. Nervousness is a very common phenomenon in our lives...We go through this feeling now and then. It can't be separated from our lives...since this emerges whether we want it or not. If any of you is suffers from jittery very often...don't feel guilty...because it never sees any difference between poor or rich, young or mature, illiterate or highly qualified... So please go though the poem and leave your comments...

It happens sometimes We have dancing butterflies No words only the expressions Shuddering, shaking due to lack of courage and confidence. We become the slave Of that moment grave This is nothing else but nervousness This victimizes us with relentlessness. How callous this feeling is As it spares no one whoever it is. Then nothing matters to us Only jittery, apprehension and unrest Nervousness appears again and again As it is the part and parcel of happiness and pain.
So be happy, safe and healthy,…

We can do...and we'll do!!

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Hello Everyone, How are you all? 
Well...while talking to my listeners during motivation classes or counselling sessions….I often meet diverse people who are from different age-group, choice, taste and background. These people may be different from each other at certain issues…but I find a similar link between all of them….NOBODY IS SATISFIED WITH HIS/HER LIFE… Each of them is confused and is in dilemma…Each of them keeps bickering about what he doesn't have….how much dejected he is….how his life is devoid of any interest and charm…. How his friend is doing pretty well in his life…but he, despite rigorous work and intellect, is not getting positive returns….I get little perturbed, when I hear most of them complaining against God….they say why God is callous to them in each and every aspect of their life… The most disturbing thing is…that people tend to discuss about their problems, sufferings, dejection and failures but they never ponder about what the Almighty has gifted to them.…

Relations...the Precious Treasure!!!

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Hello Everyone, How are you all? Well…friends while conducting motivation sessions…I do tell my audience that if they really want to succeed in their lives…they will have to value their relations. Since no success is complete without our close friends, family members and our well-wishers. Our lives with glittering success is not enough and we need our people around us to celebrate...the people...who understand us and who are always there to take care of emotional well-being. Friends...let me give the example ofPratyusha Banerjee, an emerging actor of television, who ended her life by committing suicide recently...what made her taking such an extreme step??…Don't you think...it was a herculean task for a girl like her who belonged to a middle class family... to hog limelight in the television industry...She was appreciated for her wonderful and natural acting skills ...and the answer is lack of emotional support...so we must comprehend how essential our family is for our strong emot…

To Err is Human but don't make it your Habit

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Hello Everyone, How are you all doing? Let me tell you conversing with you daily has become my habit...I can't  resist myself from writing blogs...since you all have become an inseparable part of my life. So today...let's discuss how habits can change our personality, nature and life entirely....
But before I commence discussing what habits are...it is significant to talk about mistakes....as we know To err is human and to forgive is divine. So friends, we are humans and deliberately or unknowingly I keep making some or the other mistake in our lives...how do you deal with such situation when you feel that loss is irreparable on account of your mistake? Does it send shivers down your spine? Friends, this is a general tendency to not to hold ourselves responsible for our own mistakes and we put in our best efforts to let the world know that we are innocent...and we end up lying which leads to more mess...then starts a never ending series of lies...We should not making mistakes …

Enjoy the Pain of Learning

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Learn as if you were to live forever.     --Mahatma Gandhi Hello Everyone, How are you all?  Well…while reading today’s The Times of India, I came across the  interview of Salman Khan in which while answering to one of the scribes' questions, he provided information about his upcoming movie for which he is working hard so that he can get into the skin of the character (I assume it is the role of a wrestler). He talked about the tough training he’s been going through by fighting the real wrestlers who, during the shoot, throw him on the ground and it hurts…He said. One fascinating statement which made in his interview was…'I’m trying to enjoy that pain of learning’. However we appreciate each and every sentence asserted by a celebrity like Salman Khan but I reckon that this is not mere a sentence...as it unravels the philosophy of life. Learning is a requisite on which the structure of our entire life stands as it is the only motivating factor which is vital to steer our lives in…

Trouble and Prayer

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Hello Everyone,
How are you all? Well...today I came across a woman...her wrinkled face...expressionless eyes...and hunched back were narrating the story of her pathetic condition...She came and stood at some distance with me. Firstly I couldn't understand why she was standing in such a way...as she was quiet and didn't seem a beggar and moreover it was ten 10 O' clock. In the meanwhile my friend came back after getting her dinner packed and gestured me to start the scooter...without wasting a moment, I unzipped my handbag and groped for some change to give to the old lady. I could feel tears in her eyes and a faint smile on her dull face...This was a trivial instance...and I wish to draw your attention towards problems, sufferings, want and scarcity. Often I keep thinking why people undergo scarcity...do you ever think why humans suffer? On account of these sufferings...sometimes life seems very tough and people end up taking extreme steps . I become overwhelmed and dejec…

Originality Vs Artificiality

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Hello Everyone, Please go through my poem I'm sharing with you all and never ever let yourself down no matter how tough the situation is....since we all have abundance of power which has immense and consistent source of confidence and will power...which can also be called intrinsic strength...and if we recognize this power lying within us...nothing will be impossible for us...so we have to start talking to ourselves when we don't have anyone around us...spending some quality time with our 'selves' can make us comprehend our 'real selves'. At the end of the day..it is originality which matters...so let's train our selves to overcome each and every hurdle which comes on our way to success and contentment. The name of my poem is Originality Vs Artificiality

You like to stand in shadow, Whereas others stand in the sun and shine, Diffidence has surrounded you in vain, You are perfect with your imperfections, There’s no need to be embarrassed  And throwing pity party…

You and the World

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Hello everyone,
How are you doing? I hope you are enjoying Sunday morning...I came across an English proverb while reading today's Times of India...the proverb was..The world will see us as we see ourselves...everybody knows about this fact...moreover we are hesitant to follow it practically...friends, often we look up at others for their feedback about us...this is really hilarious. We know about ourselves more than the rest of the world but still we keep looking for others' opinion about us. For e.g. if we purchase a new dress or car or anything else we exhibit it to others and seek for their perception. 'Is that OK?' is our first question...why do we make our best to get others' nod all the time...what does our confidence say? However it is often good to take feedback from others but how can we rely that?
Let's come back to the point with which I started my blog...the world will see us the way we see ourselves...this plays a pivot role in our lives and succ…
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Hello Everyone,
How are you all doing? Today I have several things to share with you...There's a word bore which we keep using in our day to day discourse.
So I'm thinking to share more words which have the same meaning but are used in different situations. Let me share an instance with you
There is a beautiful woman in my neighbourhood. She is witty but I find her a real bore when she starts talking about her knowledge of cuisine. Once I happened to have dinner at her place...and as usual she started babbling about the dishes which she had prepared. As a generous and humble guest, I praised the dishes, she had prepared and had to nod with her points but I found the food really bland.as it didn't taste anything. Her consistent jabber and long-winded explanation about how she makes mouth-watering dishes, made the conversation very monotonous. My happiness and zeal of having food with that intellectual woman disappeared as the meeting got dull and tedious. I managed to swa…

Mom I miss you..

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O mother I wish you were here! (Poem)

O mother I wish you were here!
Holding my hand and sitting very near;
There was a time when you were there,
For your guidance, love and care;
But now I feel myself in a Deep Ocean alone,
 Yelling your name but I know you are gone;

O mother I wish you were here!
Holding my hand and sitting very near.

You seemed to be out of sight,
But your memoirs inside are very bright;
No relation can make me contented,
As the bond between us can never be sedated;

O mother I wish you were here!
Holding my hand and sitting very near.

How I wish to share my feelings of bereavements,
Feelings of failure, my passion, and little achievements;
How hard it is to forget your affection,

O mother I wish you were here!
Holding my hand and sitting very near.

Life is full of complexities and thorny deceits,
 How to get solace but I won‘t retreat;
As you always wished me to touch the sky,
So I‘ll keep marching till I reach very high;
 But even the victory seems to lie
And my h…

Failure is a secret to Success!

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Failure is a secret to Success! Hello Everyone, How are you all? Friends…yesterday I met up one of my acquaintances who used to be a bright student in his school-time. Now he is working in the private sector and is not contented with his work, life and status. I know…that he is diligent, sincere and honest and dedicated to his job. And hence, after my meeting with him got over…I kept thinking, why despite being equipped with several good qualities, he couldn't exhibit his talent to the rest of the world…why can’t he  be considered a successful person and why couldn't he achieve success in his life as per his expectations. What do you say? What is the yardstick of success in our lives?  How can we become successful? I reckon that failure is never talked about as failures stupefy usNobody desires for failures…this is believed that failure should not be displayed since it is not glittering and impressive like success. People look down upon the unsuccessful people. Due to slump…some…

Happy Sunday

Hello Everyone,
Happy Sunday...as we all know that Sunday is the first day of the week but we all keep waiting for this amazing day since it is like a fresh, gentle breeze which rejuvenates us after a long hectic week of rigorous work. So on this fantastic day, I would like to suggest you all to enjoy it by spending time with your family and hanging out with your friends, go for shopping, watch the new release.....toady's message is life a precious gift of God and we should live it to its full. But don't forget to take out some time for your workout session and meditation. Your physical and mental fitness is a must for your well-being.
Well it's time to go to work for me as I'm at work.
Love yourself, Be safe, healthy and happy and Take care.
Bye
Mamta Sharma

Healthy Habits

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Hello Everyone, How are you all doing? Sorry for being away from all of you for one entire day…let me tell you that I look forward to talk to you all. But it was due to a snag in the internet connection. Anyway it is good to have healthy habits. Today I woke up late and I couldn't have my breakfast….Do you know why it is called ‘Breakfast’? Because by having our breakfast, we break our fast after waking up in the morning. So it is very important to wake up early so that we don’t start our day in haphazard way.  So we will talk about the benefits of early rising in my next bog. I am about to reach my college….so love yourself, be safe and healthy and take care. Bye              
Mamta Sharma

Tiredness: a Psychological Feeling.

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Dear All,
How are you doing? I just came back from my workplace and was feeling quite tired. a cup of strong tea refreshed me and now I am all set to talk to you all.
 So today, I want to discuss something which plays a vital role in our lives and this is tiredness.
So is tiredness...physical...or...psychological? Do you know that physical tiredness can be removed after taking rest for a while but it is really very tough to overcome our psychological tiredness or fatigue. There is a saying in Hindi, 'manke hare haar hai, man ke jeete jeet' ( 'म न  के हा र  है , मन  के जीते जीत') which means feeling tired or rejuvenated is a person's own attitude. So dear friends..let's don't get dominated by this negative feeling. Since life means to move forward and to stop is like putting a full stop to our success. No pains..no gains. Life is for a very short span of time but lots of work is to be done during this period. We will have to choose if we want to rest and li…

Happiness is a Feeling.

Hello All,
In one of my blogs..I had asked you how we all can be happy..what is the cause of real happiness..if it is because of materialistic things, success, friendship or something else...today I want to discuss happiness with you all. Happiness is a feeling which we all have when life seems favorable to us. but what...when things don't go according to our expectations! We lose our patience, we start comparing our lives with others who appear happy and gratified to us...we even don't hesitate to blame the Almighty for each and every unexpected occurrence in our lives...Now let me tell you the reason...the state of happiness/unhappiness is due to our attitude....a person who has positive attitude accepts the challenges and moves ahead but a person who has negative attitude...is timid because he is unable to muster his courage to confront the reality.
So dear readers...we have to remember that we all have immense power in ourselves...but we keep wandering to find this sourc…

perfection and ourselves

Hey All,
How are you doing? Today I wanna talk to you all about perfection and ourselves..we all know that there are loads of dreams that we have for a better future and to have that...we need to have perfection. We keep encouraging ourselves to perfect our personality, deeds, career, relations and almost everything. Sometimes we succeed but sometimes we fail...so what happens, when we find all our efforts, to have perfection, have gone in vain. Now the real struggle commences....we become very hard on ourselves...we push ourselves hard and hard to do better. No matter how much potential we have...we are not gratified. Since we wish to obtain perfection at any cost...but we should hold on for a second...and should ponder about the things that we have already achieved. Nobody is perfect in this world..it is simply not possible to have 100% perfection. Sometimes our 'selves' wish to be pampered..to be loved...to be care for...So it is better to relax for a while, if things don&…

Idiom/Phrases 2

Hello All,
You know phrases/idioms play a vital role in our day to day communication but when we speak of them, we have to keep in mind the value of their usage as it is the usage that gives a special meaning to a word or phrase. One thing that I would like to mention here is that the largest number of idioms are those that result from the addition of prepositions after verbs.
So let's discuss the following idioms that have the word 'look':
1. Look forward to:
Meaning: to wait for with expectations
We all have been looking forward to the winter holidays.
2. Look at:
Meaning: to see
Usage: Let me look at those beautiful dolls.
3. Look into:
Meaning: to examine
I request you to look into the matter and take some strict action.
4. Look after:
Meaning: to take care of
5. Look down upon:
Meaning: to despise Usage: It is his habit to look down upon the person he talks with.
6. To look for:
Meaning: to be in search of
Usage: The police are looking for the thief. Kindly leave your comment and t…